10/25/2021
I have been super hesitant on posting things we do as a family during my off time especially during busy season because I am super stressed that people will think their gallery isn’t a priority. Even if it’s as exciting as taking my kiddo to pick out his first pumpkin.
For some reason I feel like people have this unrealistic expectation from photographers to put galleries before life. To put work before spending time family and friends…work before vacations. For some reason I feel like people expect us not to take time off, and to be honest time off doesn’t really exist as business owner. There is always **something** we could be doing and it’s really hard to turn your brain off.
I also know you guys never see the nights I am up until 3am, because I feel guilty that my 10 month old hasn’t let me put him down all day. I have a stage 5 clinger.
I never want anyone to think I am complaining, or want you to feel bad for me because I truly do adore my job, but I also want you guys to know how a lot of us are feeling. September-November in Tennessee is typically busy season, but in 2021 busy season turned into almost an entire year. I honestly don’t see the volume of weddings letting up anytime soon. I have/had over 50 weddings (not including sessions) this year, there are 52 weekends in a year if that tells you how crazy it’s been.
My fail for 2021, which I’m sure is common for a lot of the wedding industry was my personal time. It was basically non existent to be quite honest. We took one vacation this year, one vacation where I **tried** to be present, not to stress about emails and inquires piling up in my inbox, or all the work that needed to be done.
2021 taught me a lot. 2021 taught me I can’t do everything and give it 100%. 2021 taught me outsourcing things you don’t love, or are the best at is okay (Really thankful for my CPA’s, and Clean Eatz). 2021 taught me it’s okay to hire on a team. 2021 taught me to grow.
Just remember to extend a little love and patience to your wedding vendors. We are a little tired, but very in love with our jobs.