10/18/2026
Your kid doesn't need to perform for my camera. They need to trust it first.
SAVE this if getting a good photo of your kid feels impossible.
What does YOUR kid do when a camera comes out? Hide? Run? Full meltdown?
This is a trick I've used for about five years, straight from my teaching background. With kids under seven, especially the shy ones who've never had professional photos taken, I don't start by photographing them. I let THEM take a picture.
Yesterday's session: she's four, princess and the frog theme, and she brought a little crochet frog. So I put my (very expensive) camera around her neck, showed her the screen, and walked her through it. Touch the frog to focus. Press the button. One, two, three. This is your picture, you get to keep this one.
The second she saw her photo, she completely lit up. Totally different kid. The rest of the shoot was smooth sailing.
Here's why it works. At four, she doesn't know what's happening or why I'm asking her to do things. Walking her through the process gives her the map. Once she understands it, her nervous system stands down, and then the real smiles show up. That's how you get the best candids.
Yes, this is part of why my sessions run a little longer. Creating safety takes time, and safety is the whole job.
The last clip is her photo. Completely unedited. She took that.
Denver parents, that's exactly who I do this for. Let's chat.