06/13/2026
Pulling off the perfect proposal involves a curated blend of thoughtfulness, intention, planning, and ex*****on.
Every guy planning a proposal thinks he has it all figured out. What they don’t realize is that she has been waiting for this moment her entire life. Your five seconds down on one knee is not going to give her the moment she’s always dreamed of, nor is it going to give you the reaction you want.
You need to spend enough time down on one knee for her to get past the initial shock, and let the gravity of the situation and the emotions reveal themselves.
Think about how much time you spent studying for exams in high school and college. How much time have you spent preparing for hypothetical situation, questions ahead of interviews. Why wouldn’t you equally prepare for one of the single, most profound and meaningful moments of your life?
You should, period.
As men, we are often not taught how to express our emotions. Many times we are taught to push them down deep inside.
This needs to change
I have this conversation with every single client ahead of a proposal.
It works!