03/05/2026
When the wife said that she wanted the Fat Man to take her for a nice dinner, he had several places in mind. We looked at several menus and eventually decided on The Obstinate Sons in Lexington’s Chevy Chase area. The Obstinate Sons is known for its Southern comfort food with a fusion twist, extensive bourbon selection, and craft cocktails in a cozy, stylish setting.
We decided to try a couple of appetizers, starting with the Maryland Crab Cakes, which were pan-seared with roasted heirloom tomatoes, apple cider vinaigrette-tossed arugula, and whole-grain mustard aioli. The sear on the cake was perfect. Inside the crab cake was a proper amount of crab and cake, making for a great bite, texture, and taste. The crab was meaty, tender, fresh, buttery, and delicate. The mustard aioli cut through the cake like a surgeon, giving each bite a nice tang. The salad is a nice side with the cake, and the apple cider really complements the arugula.
Next up were the Roasted Oysters. These were made with a Herb lemon Parmesan panko crust, mozzarella, Parmesan, and roasted red peppers. The oyster was cooked perfectly; it had a slight chew and had tremendous flavor. The crust had a nice crunch, the peppers added texture, and the lemon really comes through from start to finish. The Mozzarella and Parmesan give the dish a little nutty, salty flavor that pairs well with the oyster.
Next, I tried the French Onion Soup. This was prepared with caramelized sweet onions, a port wine reduction, gruyere cheese, and Parmesan toast. The cheese was melted to a great ooey gooey texture and had an amazing cheese pull. The onions were caramelized perfectly. The port wine reduction, along with the onions, makes the dish sweet rather than its traditional savory flavor. The toast adds a mushy texture to the dish while helping to combine all the flavors.
My wife tried the Andouille Sausage and Chicken gumbo with dirty rice made with corn, okra, green onions, and bay leaves. The rice was cooked perfectly, with good flavor, a puffy mouthfeel, and slight heat. The broth was layered with flavor, had a velvety texture, and a great spice level that lingers at the back of the tongue. The chicken and sausage were both tender and flavorful, giving the soup body and chew. The okra and corn went well in the dish, although my wife still found the okra a little slimy.
We split the Prime Pork Chop, a 10-oz boneless center-cut sauteed over creamy portobello risotto with sauteed spinach, roasted garlic, and Dijon cream. The chop was seasoned and cooked perfectly. It had a great salt level and almost melted in your mouth. The risotto had great mushroom flavor, and the sauce had an awesome creamy texture. The risotto was slightly overcooked, but it still tasted extremely good. The sauteed spinach was cooked down to a nice, wilted texture; however, I found it a little salty. The Mac and cheese were maybe the only miss, but not by much. The amount of cheese was perfect, and it had great flavor. The noodles were overcooked and mushy, and the cheese sauce had broken, leaving the dish grainy. That being said, it was still not the worst I had ever had.
The Obstinate Sons offers appetizers, soups and salads, sandwiches, entrees, desserts, and seasonal specials. They have a full bar offering handmade cocktails, beer, and wine. The service was really good, and everything came out perfectly timed. The Fat Man says that The Obstinate Sons is Fat Man Approved with 3 chins.