05/22/2026
Almost nothing about Jamie and Wilson’s wedding went the way it was planned, but the day was held together by the people who love them.
Jamie and Wilson got married at Oakhurst in West Point, Georgia. I felt how loved they were before the ceremony even started. I’d carried the details away from the getting ready room and was photographing them when I overheard Dad talking about how excited he was for this wedding, how much he loved them, how perfectly matched they were. I don’t hear dads gush like that very often, so here I am trying to photograph details with tears in my eyes.
When Jamie walked down the aisle, everyone around me was crying. Wilson. The grandparents. Both sets of parents. Wilson’s brother Kirk. So of course I was too.
Later, after the daddy daughter dance, Jamie and her mom shared a dance of their own. An instrumental version of “You Are My Sunshine” started playing, and one by one, the people who loved her began to quietly sing along. More tears.
Here’s the part I want you to hear if you’re planning a wedding: that day, the timeline fell apart. The officiant and coordinator got sick and couldn’t attend. Jamie’s dress needed stitches from a friend at the last minute, and we lost the window for the first touch she and Wilson had planned. But every time something went wrong, someone who loved them stepped in.
As the timeline was getting more off track, I could see Jamie getting stressed. I reminded her it wasn’t about getting the first touch in a pretty spot. It was about getting one minute with him to calm her nerves. We brought Wilson to the door, and the two of them held hands around the doorframe while Jamie waited on her dress.
It wasn’t picture perfect. It was even better. It was real. She needed that minute with him, and she got it.
Your timeline will probably slip. Something will go sideways. None of that is what you’ll remember. You’ll remember your dad gushing about you, your friends singing over you, one quiet minute holding hands to calm your nerves. Build your day around the people and the moments, and let everything else stay flexible.
Nothing about their day went the way it was planned. But it was real.
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