23/04/2024
The Mother and the Son.
I have a very short story of a both timeless people, in different timeframes The one from her past and the other is in his present time.
A one single Moment that awaken there life longing awaited Journeys.
Mother: If I would not be your Mother, who would you choose to be.
Son(Young Child): I would never choose anyone like you my Mom, it's always you whom I would choose.
Challenges and Struggles came after there own life's journey. They had been tested by the Glimpse and roles of there own times. And the one had given up and the other one holds on to the other whom given up to.
Mother: My son why did you grow so tired and messed up, I'd never wish for your life to be something like this, what happened to you my Son?
Son: Yes! Mom, you'd never wished me to be like my own self. Because since then that you've raised me you've always wished and wanted me to act as the one who really wanted to become in your life. What you've expected me to become like who really wanted to be, and not who I am as myself and what I like on my own life. You wanted me to chase your own Hopes and Dreams in life that turned out to be your own likes and expectations for me. It is not love that drives you to raised me like this, but it is your Failed expectations for your own self that let you do it for me.
Moral of the Story: Do not Hold your Child's own life and dreams just as what you've held upon your own future to be. The unfulfilled and dissatisfied longings from your own failings are already enough and done from your own timeframe in your own timeline. Your child are not the vessel of hope in reexploring your Dreams and Aspirations in life. Just bare it in our Minds as Parent that as stewards of our children's there own Future are not the grip of our hands. Mind as well that your children are not your own possesions in life to control and Influence them with our Expectations to be.
And a Reminder to every parents out there;
Your timeframes had already passed and your lifes Dreams and Expectations for yourself are already passed down to your children your lifes silver linings. However even you are not satisfied and fullfilled by your life it will be your childs dream that will continues the Passion that drives you to persevered of who they had raised you to be in life. So this time it will be your own child concerns and worries upon there Dreams and Expectations to bloom into another Hope and your children needs your support to enlighten a chance and be given a choice to be guided and make there dreams fullfilled by there own Passion and Aspiration in life. It would be a Great satisfaction of a Parent to dream and leave there Expectations that they see upon there children to freely achieved there own goals and successes in life. You can really say to your self as a Parent that "I've done my Part to be there best thing in this world" and it's more than enough. You are there to be a Child's Guide and a Path as Parents who will mold and sculpt them to be like whom are they really wanted to be in there own lives. It will be a reward for to make your children to be specially not as your own copycats.
