18/02/2025
MY MUM'S ADVICE TO MY SISTER
1. My daughter, donāt cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.
2. My daughter, I know that some of you girls donāt wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive, donāt ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your sonās wife- to-be should start wishing you're dead now.
3. My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and weāre proud looking at them.
4. My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.
5. My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I havenāt said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried that.
6. My daughter, look up there. Thatās the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.
7. My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.
8. My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase heās passing through.
9. My daughter, donāt ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, donāt be so, donāt be stiff and try to sa
