Moments by Wishmama

Moments by Wishmama used to be photos now it's memories of my grief journey into widowhood

03/10/2025

Enjoy every moment of your life, we only get one shot at it so make yourself unforgettable...
My husband certainly did
Everyone meet my husband Gordon. On this page and journey you will hear how memories like this have saved us from losing faith

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Another day of bitter sweet feelingsOur son the baby of the house went out with his good friends and bought his first ca...
11/05/2024

Another day of bitter sweet feelings

Our son the baby of the house went out with his good friends and bought his first car.
You were meant to be here with him.
You were meant to take it for the first spin
You were meant to show him how to drive before losing patience and having me take over

You would be so proud of our baby boy, he is becoming a man and as happy as he is with his car you can feel the pain that you arent here
How do I take his pain away...when at the same time I'm drowning in my own pain
We miss you always baby
Love you more
Hope you're proud

11/05/2024

Today is a hard day
Its a day where the silence is deafening
It's a day where I expect you to come in covered in glue searching for some random bit of material dor a costume
It's a day where I should be planning our takeaway for a night of cuddles and chat
It's a day where you knew at 1am ish I'd start playing musical tracks and dance on the bed forever making you smile

Today is a day
I miss you always it isn't any easier your absence gets harder to deal with as time goes on

So the silence is deafening but at least no one can hear my tears xx

Miss you always baby
Love you eternally

10/05/2024

I used to use this page for photographs

Photographs are memories captured

Now I want to use this page as a bit of a grief journey journal

I lost my husband 11 weeks ago...soon to be 12 weeks. We were married 21 years and together longer than I was without him. He was only 49 about to turn 50.
He just suddenly passed of cardiac arrest

The grief isn't easing the pain is intensified with each day . I fear forgetting his voice his smell his arms I miss his love for life
As this video shows his love of his family especially his kids.

Whilst I've still paperwork oh so much paperwork to get through which I think is holding off the grief tidal wave

I dread it.

I am going to write wee bits and hopefully my journey finds others on the same journey to know they arent alone.
If you are on this path I am sorry for your loss x

Thank you for your love

Some fun down at Ballintoy on the Mortal realm with Scorpion aka Bespoke By Ben All made by himself ...
10/03/2022

Some fun down at Ballintoy on the Mortal realm with Scorpion aka Bespoke By Ben
All made by himself

Snapping the gorgeous Untouchable Siren today at a spectacular abandoned building Was cold but worth it
30/11/2021

Snapping the gorgeous Untouchable Siren today at a spectacular abandoned building
Was cold but worth it

Capturing the chill and the beauty of the snow and the spring in one photo Its not the perfect photo but its a momentIts...
27/01/2021

Capturing the chill and the beauty of the snow and the spring in one photo
Its not the perfect photo but its a moment

Its a moment I had a clear mind, the weather was cold but beautiful,
So much negativity in the world today its time to share a moment of smiles a day
What makes you smile? ..

When the moon was full before Halloween it was a sight to behold To watch it rise is soothing and hypnotic...makes you t...
02/11/2020

When the moon was full before Halloween it was a sight to behold

To watch it rise is soothing and hypnotic...makes you think sometimes even when there is only a half moon its always a full moon just some of it is hidden. Much like ourselves in our own lives .

Lord so today I may have bitten a bullet and if it goes well then happy days...if not then I can keep trying...
29/09/2020

Lord so today I may have bitten a bullet and if it goes well then happy days...if not then I can keep trying...

Love a good silhouette photo.and HedgeScout makes it so possible to capture Queen Cersei even though you can't see her ...
01/08/2020

Love a good silhouette photo.and HedgeScout makes it so possible to capture Queen Cersei even though you can't see her

Such a fun day with Auroras cosplay and make up and Joanne .

I enjoy cosplay photography more than anything....it helps me escape and helps the cosplayer savour the moment .

Next time maybe get into the throne room at the Fullerton Arms
The scenery alone is a great reason to visit.

Soon there will be more cosplay photos from.other characters....and ill even be sharing some taken of myself as my new character

Cosplay and photography are my escape.and shoots like this with friends as amazing as this lady make.it better than it ever could be xx

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